Back in 2016, I had my first daughter and found myself in the most challenging crossroads to date. I had spent my pre-motherhood years fearlessly hiking, traveling, and exploring the most awe-inspiring places.
Then, once my daughter joined the party, I faced the stark reality that I needed to be her greatest protector if we were going to continue my love for the rugged, wild, great outdoors.
Gone were the days of just assuming that everything would be ok.
I realized that I had a responsibility to my child to be her best protector and first responder.
I also had an extremely important task of always making sure that I returned home safely to her, too.
And so began one of my most wild adventures to date: transforming myself into the best Mother Grizzly possible.
I learned situational awareness so I could make the best decisions for us,
and wilderness first aid so I could be an adequate First Responder for all of us on the trail.
I learned how to protect us against wild animals and dangerously wild humans, too.
I learned how to plan, prepare, protect, and more.
Most importantly, I learned how to have the maximum amount of fun with my kids while multitasking the Protector role.
Now, you may be thinking: "My husband takes on the role of the protector."
Great, same here.
But I refuse to wait to explore with my kids until it's convenient for his work schedule.
I also need to be his helper in emergency situations, not a clueless holdup, so these teachings still apply.
And, as much as I hope he lives to be 105, I can't guarantee anything.
So regardless of traditional marriage roles,
becoming the greatest protector as a mother is absolutely necessary.